People Who Fuck Up Your Gaydar

Publish date: 2024-05-19

John Lithgow has gay face and gay voice but is apparently straight.

by Anonymousreply 354February 17, 2020 9:31 PM

Lyle, The Effeminate Heterosexual.

by Anonymousreply 1April 6, 2019 6:21 AM

Peter Sarsgaard.

Has gay voice and pings to me.

But married to a woman and has 2 children.

by Anonymousreply 2April 6, 2019 6:21 AM

Every unmarried man in our office

by Anonymousreply 5April 6, 2019 6:29 AM

[quote] Peter Sarsgaard.

R2, you're the one always making threads on him aren't you? Mary!!

by Anonymousreply 6April 6, 2019 6:30 AM

R4, she did appear on "Queer as Folk", although I think she played a straight woman.

by Anonymousreply 7April 6, 2019 6:30 AM

The writer of gay anthem "It's Raining men"

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by Anonymousreply 8April 6, 2019 6:30 AM

R6, no, I've never made a thread on Peter Sarsgaard.

by Anonymousreply 10April 6, 2019 6:32 AM

That's CAGNEY, fumbduck at R4.

by Anonymousreply 11April 6, 2019 6:32 AM

Brits are confusing to Americans.

I did a semester abroad in college. It seemed like every man there was gay.

by Anonymousreply 12April 6, 2019 6:32 AM

The first time I heard Mayor Pete speaking I couldn't tell he was gay.

by Anonymousreply 16April 6, 2019 6:40 AM

Jon Cryer

David Spade

Michelle Shocked

Irish celebrity architect/TV personality Dermot Bannon

by Anonymousreply 19April 6, 2019 12:42 PM

I'd extend that to 30, R20.

by Anonymousreply 21April 6, 2019 1:22 PM

What r20 and, by extension, r21 said. I believed a 25-year-old I know was gay for months, and then he introduced me to his girlfriend eight months later. I was floored. There wasn't really any reason for me to know much about his personal life, but he did let me infer a couple of months after I met him that the two most important people in his life were his brother and his grandmother. Never mentioned a girlfriend (nor a boyfriend).

by Anonymousreply 23April 6, 2019 1:27 PM

Jon Hamm; Lyle Waggoner; Pat Boone; Ryan Seacrest; Whoopi Goldberg; Venus/Serena Williams; Michelle Rodriguez; Luke Bryan; Cory Booker...

by Anonymousreply 26April 6, 2019 1:44 PM

Just because some guy is married to a woman and has children doesn't mean he's straight. That means he's closeted, e.g. Peter Sarsgaard, John Lithgow

by Anonymousreply 30April 6, 2019 2:09 PM

R20 R21 R23 Agreed. Millennials.

by Anonymousreply 32April 6, 2019 2:32 PM

The list reads like closeted stars. I thought Travolta was gay but he is married. Sarcasm.

by Anonymousreply 34April 6, 2019 2:41 PM

R34- I guess of lot of DL Queens are as dumb/clueless as straight people.

by Anonymousreply 35April 6, 2019 3:45 PM

Jason Bateman...I could’ve sworn that he was gay, but no!

by Anonymousreply 37April 6, 2019 3:55 PM

R8, Paul Jabara wrote ‘It’s raining men’. And he was gay.

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by Anonymousreply 38April 6, 2019 3:59 PM

The roving bands of teenage boys who hang off of each other in the streets throughout Italy.

by Anonymousreply 41April 6, 2019 4:31 PM

[quote] Paul Jabara wrote the song in collaboration with Paul Shaffer, and composed

R38 did you even read the link you posted?????

by Anonymousreply 42April 6, 2019 8:10 PM

R19 David Spade reads closeted-bi to me. He does love a bunnygirl and even had a kid by one.

Like all comedians he exaggerates most details of his life, but I do buy his story that he was infatuated with Ellen when they were 20-somethings on the standup circuit. He seems the swishy lothario type who goes for femmes but secretly also likes soft-butches he has to work to land and impress. Given how friendly they became, were this the '50s they'd probably have gotten married in a Lavender arrangement.

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by Anonymousreply 43April 16, 2019 2:15 PM

Mario Lopez. Greg Proops.

by Anonymousreply 45April 16, 2019 2:31 PM

Neil Patrick Harris. I wish he was straight.

by Anonymousreply 51April 16, 2019 3:20 PM

Vespa Desbia. Very confusing.

by Anonymousreply 52April 16, 2019 3:22 PM

JOHN MALKOVICH!!! He has been with a woman since 1989 but nothing and no one will ever convince me that he is straight. I actually thought he was gay for the longest time.

by Anonymousreply 53April 16, 2019 3:26 PM

Greg Kelly formerly of Channel 5 News in NYC

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by Anonymousreply 54April 16, 2019 3:31 PM

[quote]The first time I heard Mayor Pete speaking I couldn't tell he was gay.

Wow. Stereotype much?

by Anonymousreply 59April 16, 2019 4:51 PM

Oprah & Gayle

Taron insists he's straight... dating Emily Thomas. There are half a dozen GIFs like this...

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by Anonymousreply 60April 16, 2019 4:57 PM

The whole subject of this thread is about stereotype much.

by Anonymousreply 61April 16, 2019 4:57 PM

R55 but you just know Renner tried it on anyways, because that's just his brand.

by Anonymousreply 62April 16, 2019 4:57 PM

Tony Randall owns this thread.

by Anonymousreply 63April 16, 2019 5:00 PM

I did not expect Jamie Bell to be a clitlicker. Not at all.

by Anonymousreply 66April 16, 2019 5:41 PM

There was a wonderful extremely swish pic of George Clooney coming out of a restaurant that people used to link here years ago. Can't find it.

by Anonymousreply 69April 16, 2019 5:58 PM

Yes to Greg Proops, even when I found out he was married I assumed it was to a friend so they could raise kids together.

by Anonymousreply 73April 16, 2019 6:37 PM

Amber Heard. But my first mistake was believing she was a human.

by Anonymousreply 74April 16, 2019 6:39 PM

I could have sworn Alan Rickman was gay but apparently he was with the same woman since 1967.

by Anonymousreply 76April 16, 2019 7:02 PM

Sounds pretty gay to me, r76.

by Anonymousreply 77April 16, 2019 7:03 PM

Jacob Rascon, but he's Mormon.

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by Anonymousreply 79April 16, 2019 7:07 PM

Vincent Kartheiser.

Straight as a ruler by all accounts, but my mind just won’t wrap around that.

by Anonymousreply 86April 16, 2019 8:43 PM

Randy Travis Howard Stern Whoopi Goldberg

by Anonymousreply 88April 16, 2019 9:13 PM

Charlize Theron; but only when she speaks, stands, sits, laughs, or behaves in any way that points to, she's a human female.

by Anonymousreply 89April 16, 2019 9:25 PM

Australians - They don't seem gay at all but many of them are.

by Anonymousreply 90April 16, 2019 9:30 PM

[quote]John Hurt

I think some people assumed he was gay because he played some camp characters like Caligula and Quentin Crisp.

In real life, Hurt liked women -- and was married about 4 or 5 times.

by Anonymousreply 91April 16, 2019 11:19 PM

I refuse to believe Eddie Redmaynes straight.

by Anonymousreply 92April 16, 2019 11:23 PM

I've never accepted that Matt Lauria is straight. He used to seem even gayer. Married, but he pings too hard. He looked better before he got all ripped to be additional beefcake on Kingdom.

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by Anonymousreply 93April 16, 2019 11:27 PM

James Spader and Bill Hader.

by Anonymousreply 94April 16, 2019 11:33 PM

Martin Short

David Venable from QVC

Mayor Pete (but in the opposite way)

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by Anonymousreply 97April 16, 2019 11:42 PM

I'm pretty sure David Venable is out.

by Anonymousreply 98April 16, 2019 11:43 PM

David Venable, r97?

Your gaydar may be in need of serious repair.

by Anonymousreply 100April 16, 2019 11:47 PM

With a lot of these British guys, we have to remember that they have a different culture, different accent, different mannerisms, etc.

That's why a lot of them may "ping" the North American gaydar, even though they may be straight.

by Anonymousreply 102April 16, 2019 11:47 PM

[quote]For his personal life, not much is known about Venable’s romantic relationships, if any. He likes to keep that area of his life away from the cameras, though it has been reported that he is single so inevitably there are some rumors going around that he is gay though no significant evidence has surfaced to confirm them.

I could find no evidence that he's out, though he seems obviously gay to me. I suppose he is publicly neutral on the matter.

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by Anonymousreply 104April 16, 2019 11:50 PM

We just had a thread on him recently. He’s taken pics with his boyfriend I believe.

Either way, evidence is out there. And here’s another shocker for you: he was gorgeous and muscular when he was younger.

by Anonymousreply 106April 16, 2019 11:54 PM

R106 here, that was for r104.

by Anonymousreply 107April 16, 2019 11:55 PM

Posh Brit violinist Charlie Siem:

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by Anonymousreply 109April 17, 2019 12:09 AM

Posh Brit magician Drummond Money-Coutts:

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by Anonymousreply 111April 17, 2019 12:13 AM

Chris Martin of Coldplay:

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by Anonymousreply 112April 17, 2019 12:21 AM

Richard E Grant throws people off with his vocals ticks because born and raised in Swaziland (now Eswatini) in Africa.

He didn't relocate to the UK until he was 25. There is a movie based on his life called Wah-Wah.

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by Anonymousreply 113April 17, 2019 12:29 AM

Paul Schaffer. I swear that in the 1990s Dave was joking with Paul on the show and Paul said "Dave, I'm gay." I thought he was gay until very recently. They must have been joking, but I didn't pick up on it then.

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by Anonymousreply 117April 17, 2019 1:12 AM

A lot of these are long rumored to be gay.

Paul Schaffer wrote "It's Raining Men."

by Anonymousreply 118April 17, 2019 1:19 AM

[quote]Jason Bateman...I could’ve sworn that he was gay, but no!

That the late Franklyn Seales was the only homosexual or bisexual cast member of [italic]Silver Spoons[/italic] is one of those things I just can’t buy.

by Anonymousreply 119April 17, 2019 1:24 AM

I was surprised Meredith Baxter came out when Susan Clark fit the stereotype better.

by Anonymousreply 126April 17, 2019 2:08 AM

Heterosexuality is a choice, a sin, and a form of violence against women.

by Anonymousreply 127April 17, 2019 2:23 AM

I knew Meredith Baxter was gay when she was on Bridget loves Bernie R126.

by Anonymousreply 128April 17, 2019 2:25 AM

I think the general public was surprised about Meredith Baxter because she had been married to men, had kids, etc. Played the all American-mom on 'Family Ties', etc.

by Anonymousreply 129April 17, 2019 2:28 AM

TMZs Harvey Levin. For whatever reason, I initially thought he was straight.

by Anonymousreply 130April 17, 2019 2:30 AM

Edward Norton has always pinged for me.

by Anonymousreply 131April 17, 2019 2:37 AM

Paul Rudd. There's something about him that's so feminine.

by Anonymousreply 133April 17, 2019 2:40 AM

Another Ed Asner vote. I have heard over the years that he is gay and then seen him comment about the "love of his life," a woman, having cancer (recent tweet).

by Anonymousreply 135April 17, 2019 2:42 AM

R132, meet R119. I’m sure you and R37 have a lot to talk about.

by Anonymousreply 136April 17, 2019 2:47 AM

[quote]Another Ed Asner vote. I have heard over the years that he is gay and then seen him comment about the "love of his life," a woman, having cancer (recent tweet).

When I asked him about kissing another man in the 1976 Disney movie [italic]Gus[/italic], that whole movie seemed to be something he was eager to put behind him.

by Anonymousreply 137April 17, 2019 2:49 AM

Eric Stonestreet. He can deny it all he wants, but that boy is Gay.

by Anonymousreply 138April 17, 2019 2:55 AM

Do you guys even bother to read the thread? I Mentioned Paul Schaffer days ago

by Anonymousreply 139April 17, 2019 2:57 AM

R138: We don’t want him.

by Anonymousreply 143April 17, 2019 3:01 AM

ill be honest, I don't find a difference between "straight" and gay guys. I didn't even know this was a gay board because it reads no different than how most guys speak. IGN and other forums have exact same threads "would you lick his hole?" "urinal stories" "big cock".

by Anonymousreply 144April 17, 2019 3:02 AM

r139 Did you fail to read the anecdote about Paul Schaffer?

by Anonymousreply 145April 17, 2019 3:02 AM

In fact, after [italic]Modern Family[/italic] pushed tr*nskid propaganda, Miss Jessie should lose her gaycard.

by Anonymousreply 146April 17, 2019 3:03 AM

Paul Schaffer seems really gay.

by Anonymousreply 147April 17, 2019 3:03 AM

Tom Hanks. I could swear there's gay man trapped in there begging to get out.

by Anonymousreply 148April 17, 2019 3:04 AM

[quote]I didn't even know this was a gay board because it reads no different than how most guys speak.

Are you serious?

by Anonymousreply 149April 17, 2019 3:04 AM

r149 yeah, granted I'm younger than the majority of the board here, but guys are always talking about dicks and guys bodies and really gay shit. They just say "uhh gross" and "fag" but then go back to talking about cocks. I was in HS(ish) when Superbad and jackass and Eurotrip ...etc came out and all people could talk about were how many dicks they show in it.

by Anonymousreply 151April 17, 2019 3:10 AM

But, R151, if you check out the thread topics on DL most days, there are quite a few clues that this is not a straight guy board:

--- Golden Girls threads

-- Shawn Mendes threads

-- Which Gay Celebrities Will Come Out?

-- Which Famous Guy's Ass Would you Like to Eat?

And so on . . .

by Anonymousreply 152April 17, 2019 3:17 AM

r152 that's my point lol. The last one(famous guys ass eat) especially reads like something I've read on gaming and other forums. It didn't take that long to figure out it was a gay site, I'm just saying most "straight" dudes post shit like this, But its "funny and gross" not gay /s.

by Anonymousreply 153April 17, 2019 3:22 AM

The fact that Rick Cosnett and Grant Gustin are both apparently straight causes me constant cognitive dissonance.

by Anonymousreply 154April 17, 2019 3:29 AM

Gemma Whelan - Yara on Game of Thrones

by Anonymousreply 156April 17, 2019 3:31 AM

I like the Ed Norton votes

by Anonymousreply 157April 17, 2019 3:32 AM

r155 Jason Bateman is the gayest thing I've ever seen. He was on Stern talking about all the women he's banged and it was so pathetic and embarrassing.

by Anonymousreply 158April 17, 2019 3:32 AM

[quote]Tom Hanks. I could swear there's gay man trapped in there begging to get out.

Peter Scolari’s nervous breakdown was because Tom wouldn’t leave Rita Wilson for him. Both of them are bi.

by Anonymousreply 159April 17, 2019 3:33 AM

I met Allan Rickman, mentioned upthread. He pinged.

by Anonymousreply 160April 17, 2019 3:34 AM

Justin Gaston. It seemed like he might come out. Nowadays, wife and kid.

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by Anonymousreply 162April 17, 2019 3:39 AM

[quote][R155] Jason Bateman is the gayest thing I've ever seen. He was on Stern talking about all the women he's banged and it was so pathetic and embarrassing.

Both he and Rick Schroder are bi and would be married in a just world.

by Anonymousreply 163April 17, 2019 3:40 AM

I travelled to a very remote area of Africa where there was a primitive tribesman that was completely full on stereotypical flaming. I was caught off guard. Not sure if it was a cultural thing, but he was the only one demonstrating the mannerisms.

by Anonymousreply 164April 17, 2019 3:42 AM

He has a nice hairy chest, R162.

by Anonymousreply 166April 17, 2019 3:53 AM

R96 no, no. But maybe a poisoner.

by Anonymousreply 168April 17, 2019 9:16 AM

Me and at least a few hundred other YouTube subscribers think Josh Peck is gay, but apparently he's got a wife and baby so idk what up with that.

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by Anonymousreply 169April 17, 2019 9:20 AM

Lindz, claims he's straight.

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by Anonymousreply 171April 17, 2019 9:41 AM

R162 - He is gorgeous, but is it just me or is his navel about 3 inches too high??

by Anonymousreply 172April 17, 2019 9:53 AM

Michael C Hall Ed Skrein Ryan Reynolds Paul Stanley

by Anonymousreply 174April 17, 2019 9:56 AM

I was convinced James Wolk is gay and still can’t believe he married and procreated with a woman.

by Anonymousreply 175April 17, 2019 10:12 AM

I thought it was merely wishful thinking on my part, R175; he has always seemed straight to me.

by Anonymousreply 176April 17, 2019 10:15 AM

Where’s the proof Charlie sims is straight? I too assume he is gay, not because he is feminine, but just that he has the ‘look’. Plus I vaguely recall a delicious insta pic of him in a speedo somewhere.....

by Anonymousreply 177April 17, 2019 10:28 AM

Bisexuals are a thing, you know? So maybe your gaydar is ok, just needs some adjustments.

by Anonymousreply 178April 17, 2019 10:49 AM

R178 lol is that your ‘thing’; posting how ‘bisexuals are a thing, you know’ on every second thread

by Anonymousreply 179April 17, 2019 11:15 AM

Tony Hale (Arrested Development, Veep).

Mark Hamill is married with three kids, but whenever he opens his mouth a purse falls out. I have my suspicions.

by Anonymousreply 180April 17, 2019 11:38 AM

Jared Kushy? He's more VAMPIRE than gay!

What a creepy looking bastard. Can you imagine fucking that weirdo.

by Anonymousreply 181April 17, 2019 11:50 AM

[quote]Greg Kelly formerly of Channel 5 News in NYC

The pic of the woman in the linked article looked like Pete Davidson! Maybe Greg fucked Pete.

by Anonymousreply 182April 17, 2019 11:56 AM

[quote][R155] Jason Bateman is the gayest thing I've ever seen. He was on Stern talking about all the women he's banged and it was so pathetic and embarrassing.

...Speaking of pathetic and embarrassing.

by Anonymousreply 183April 17, 2019 12:36 PM

[quote]I was convinced James Wolk is gay and still can’t believe he married and procreated with a woman.

I don't see why you say that.

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by Anonymousreply 184April 17, 2019 12:50 PM

[quote]Bisexuals are a thing, you know? So maybe your gaydar is ok, just needs some adjustments.

It's true.

Often seemingly "gay" people and "gay" celebs who are very into gurls are bi.

I seen this over and over in real life and with celebs.

by Anonymousreply 185April 17, 2019 12:53 PM

Ralph Lauren.

I think he may be very, very closeted, and likes having a traditional family. He's from that era when that's what gay men did. Any rumors of his being with models? Male or female . . .

It seems impossible that if he were straight, he wouldn't have cheated w some of the female models.

by Anonymousreply 186April 17, 2019 1:39 PM

Somebody said Jon Hamm. Seriously? He's the straightest person alive, no pinging, no gay voice, no overly worked on body.

by Anonymousreply 187April 17, 2019 1:46 PM

R180 I’ve always had suspicions about Mark Hamill

by Anonymousreply 188April 17, 2019 1:50 PM

My gaydar is usually spot on but I had no idea Richard Madden was gay (or bi).

by Anonymousreply 192April 17, 2019 3:21 PM

That chubby, fey designer Frank on Trading Spaces. That queen is married to a woman.

by Anonymousreply 193April 17, 2019 3:24 PM

[quote]Jared Kushy? He's more VAMPIRE than gay!

[quote]What a creepy looking bastard. Can you imagine fucking that weirdo.

Tell me about it.

That's why I want to fuck Justin Trudeau.

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by Anonymousreply 195April 17, 2019 8:00 PM

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by Anonymousreply 196April 17, 2019 8:04 PM

So we're clear; out of the four N'SYNC members who aren't out as anything but straight, Joey is the one R189 has trouble sexually identifying?

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by Anonymousreply 197April 17, 2019 8:38 PM

does anyone follow Bon Appetit YT channel? there is a food editor called Chris Morocco who looks and sounds gayer than Liberace. I just found out that he is married to a woman and they have kids. doesnt mean anything, i know. but still i was shocked.

by Anonymousreply 198April 17, 2019 8:59 PM

He is R198?! I've heard him mention he has kids, but I always assumed both he and Andy were gay. I only wish Brad was.

by Anonymousreply 199April 17, 2019 9:45 PM

Josh Hartnett has never pinged to me.

Seems like a typical straight bro.

by Anonymousreply 202April 17, 2019 9:51 PM

Cute family R203. I would have never thought.

by Anonymousreply 204April 17, 2019 10:38 PM

R193 I started having suspicions about Madden when he said in an interview that he cried on the flight home following his last shoot on Game of Thrones. Seemed very emotionally open for a straight man to say. Gaydar is personal so I’ll jsut say that it made my alarm go off.

He does have a light manner about him, if you watch closely.

by Anonymousreply 205April 17, 2019 10:50 PM

Matthew Card on Milk Street.

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by Anonymousreply 206April 17, 2019 10:50 PM

R203 I’m floored. I really just assumed he was openly gay. Everything about him screams it. From his voice, to his posture and movements and slightly bitchy tone to his fussiness.

Shocked. Atleast we have the hit pocket bottom Andy on BA, so no great loss.

by Anonymousreply 208April 17, 2019 11:21 PM

Speaking of supposedly straight celebrity chefs, this one put out a pretty homoerotic music video (with lots of beards on set.)

It came out in January, so maybe Madonna was able to plagiarize some of it for "Medellín"? (I actually like it better than Madonna's song.)

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by Anonymousreply 209April 17, 2019 11:56 PM

R209 Franco is gay though

by Anonymousreply 210April 18, 2019 12:45 AM

Jon Favreau (Obama speechwriter / Pod Save America). Also Tommy Hilfiger

by Anonymousreply 212April 18, 2019 2:30 AM

R217, in Matt's case there are screencaps from some years back which seemed to show he was on an online gay chat.

So the gaydar may not have been so far off.

by Anonymousreply 218April 18, 2019 3:43 AM

Agree about the Jonas brothers. Especially Joe. I thought he was gay for sure

by Anonymousreply 219April 18, 2019 3:45 AM

The tits on Franco Noriega are something else!

by Anonymousreply 220April 18, 2019 5:13 AM

[quote]He does have a light manner about him, if you watch closely.

Gurl, how did you know I was gay?

It was the light manner you have about you, mostly.

by Anonymousreply 221April 18, 2019 5:27 AM

I remember seeing previews of this reality show and thinking it was about a gay guy who decided to get married and have a family.

I still think that's probably what it's about.... but he insists he's 100% heterosexual! (Unless something changed - I haven't been following it.)

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by Anonymousreply 222April 18, 2019 5:58 AM

Form the pictures, I assumed Jon Favreau was in the WH to write quality speeches and give Obama head. Of course, O's WH would be on the up and up so no such luck. Now that I listen to the Pod, my gaydar has grown silent.

He's got some nice dick sucking lips if he ever goes that route.

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by Anonymousreply 223April 18, 2019 6:11 AM

R224 - Eric, like many other men on this thread, is Canadian. They don't have the uptightness Americans do about "manliness." I am so frequently wrong whenever I think a Canadian guy is gay, I've just given up.

Ryan Reynolds, Ryan Gosling, Bryan Adams, Justin Trudeau, and many "real" people in my life from Canada I have all assumed were gay.

by Anonymousreply 225April 18, 2019 6:24 AM

R225 - Eric is not just lacking in uptightness. He’s prissy and effeminate in interviews.

by Anonymousreply 226April 18, 2019 6:27 AM

R225, have you learned nothing from DataLounge? All the Canadians you listed are at least bi!

by Anonymousreply 227April 18, 2019 6:47 AM

[quote][R224] - Eric, like many other men on this thread, is Canadian. They don't have the uptightness Americans do about "manliness."

When I first lived in NY (from England) - I noticed the men seemed to be either gay or jocks, there didn't seem to be a middle ground.

I remember saying this to some American woman I knew who agreed.

Of course over time I met str8 guys who were more middle ground. But, in general....

by Anonymousreply 228April 18, 2019 6:52 AM

Yeah R212, R223. Jon Favs owns this thread.

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by Anonymousreply 230April 18, 2019 7:03 AM

Kevin Jonas is queenier than most fem gays.

When I first saw Jeremy Renner he pinged so hard, I thought, wow, there's a gay guy cast in an action movie! Of course, he was closeted I discovered.

by Anonymousreply 233April 18, 2019 8:00 AM

The average age of this thread must be 55 YO. Ninety-eight percent of the men listed here do NOT ping.

Ashton Kutcher? Daniel Tosh? (BTW, who's aware of his appeal to some gays and fully plays on it)

by Anonymousreply 236April 18, 2019 10:20 AM

Daniel Tosh? I thought he was gay, gay, gay, but it's at least partly because of how much he reminds me of gay, gay, gay actor Tom Villard.

by Anonymousreply 237April 18, 2019 10:46 AM

[quote]Daniel Tosh? I thought he was gay, gay, gay

Why? why? why?

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by Anonymousreply 238April 18, 2019 11:07 AM

Yes r199. I adore Andy, the hot iranian pocket gay and i too wish Brad Leone were gay: perfect husband material. The Bon Appetit bunch as a whole is great: Carla is another hero of mine.

by Anonymousreply 240April 18, 2019 2:49 PM

R233 Kevin Jonas? How is that confusing or likely to fuck with anyone’s radar? He knows that we know he is, and he only makes a token effort to hide it because he wants that sweet JoBro moolah on tap. Are those little girls he’s raising even his blood?

by Anonymousreply 241April 18, 2019 3:41 PM

This Brits all come across as gay crap gets boring. If you mean posh English people say it and don’t include the Scots and the Welsh. And the fact that speaking politely, and not constantly dropping bits of Big Mac's down their front, comes across as ‘gay’ says a lot about the You Ess of A.

by Anonymousreply 245April 18, 2019 6:08 PM

If he means Roy Scheider R246, I don't see it (and my browser auto corrected to Schneider as well), and if you look at his wiki page, it has "other names" and has Schneider.

by Anonymousreply 247April 18, 2019 8:17 PM

R169 yeaaaah I don’t buy it either.

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by Anonymousreply 248April 18, 2019 8:35 PM

Richard Dreyfus...apparently straight. but the nebbish type guys turn me off anyway.

by Anonymousreply 251April 18, 2019 10:31 PM

R251, Dreyfus was accused of groping a couple of women during the MeToo allegations last year, so yeah, he may be a straight guy..

by Anonymousreply 252April 18, 2019 10:36 PM

R252, yeah but a bit nelly.

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by Anonymousreply 253April 18, 2019 10:43 PM

R242, according to vintage gossip...

“Osmond, Donny. "Has had several liposuction procedures. Aggressive bottom guy. Likes them young, hung, and blond."

I’m not saying it’s true. It’s just old gossip.

by Anonymousreply 254April 18, 2019 10:51 PM

I'm watching Jaws right now and yes he was r250. He may have been my first crush.

Doesn't infuse my gaydar though.

by Anonymousreply 255April 18, 2019 11:28 PM

All these dudes listed are gay or very gay bi. Lets keep it going though.

by Anonymousreply 257April 19, 2019 12:24 AM

That Asian comedian chick who slept with Chris Isaak. I thought for sure she was a rug muncher.

by Anonymousreply 259April 19, 2019 2:13 AM

Roy Scheider was a very sensual man

by Anonymousreply 260April 19, 2019 2:18 AM

Margaret Cho R259? I always thought she was a lesbian too and just going through the motions.

by Anonymousreply 261April 20, 2019 1:07 AM

Peter Marino. I don’t understand him. He seems so gay in his look, voice etc. the fact he has a dowdy wife and seems to go to event after event with a fellow leather clad man. It’s truly bizarre. But he has laughed at he mere notion that he is anything other than straight

by Anonymousreply 264April 25, 2019 4:43 AM

Wait wait wait R169..Peck ISN’T Gay?

Then what is that my radar is picking up?

by Anonymousreply 265April 26, 2019 8:48 PM

R231 he's gay and in fake relationship with closet case Jennifer Lopez

by Anonymousreply 269April 27, 2019 8:49 AM

[quote] Peck ISN’T Gay? Then what is that my radar is picking up?

Maybe Drake (the guy next to Josh in R169) is pinging in your ear; he certainly does clang in mine.

by Anonymousreply 270May 13, 2019 4:20 PM

Just found out that in the 70s John Lithgow was in a relationship with Liv Ullmann. So weird.

by Anonymousreply 271May 13, 2019 4:22 PM

R94 Spader has homoerotic chemistry with most men no matter what he does, but maybe he's not gay and he can't help it because it's just his natural vibe. I've known men in performing arts just like that; not gay, just a little curious and using acting/writing to explore some unknown territory.

Irrespective of his orientation (I assume straight-leaning bi, as he's happily married to a woman) I always assumed a younger Spader was banging his male co-stars in any given movie. Like I can't actually watch TRUE COLORS through the thick smog of sexual tension Spader has with John Cusack.

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by Anonymousreply 272May 13, 2019 4:25 PM

Jason Bateman. I still cannot believe that he’s a heterosexual.

The late Meshach Taylor from Designing Women. Married to a really pretty actress from General Hospital.

Simon Nessman, former Armani model. In interviews he’s so soft spoken and twee. But he’s got a girlfriend...but she’s Asian-Canadian, so there’s that.

I too thought that Paul Rudd was gay. He’s aware that many people do think that he is.

Micah Muzio of Kelley Blue Book car reviews. A lot of his reviews are on YouTube and someone even accused him on his Instagram page of being gay, which he laughed off. But I find that many automotive journalists are gay. Who knew?

by Anonymousreply 273May 13, 2019 4:51 PM

Wait, Charlie Siem is not gay? Are we sure?

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by Anonymousreply 274May 13, 2019 5:25 PM

R272 the script of ‘True Colors’ opens with Spader’s character giving a literal homoromantic monologue spelling that subtext you noticed right out. It goes:

[quote] “Peter...a man I loved. The kind (of Love) without the million mousetraps of sex & marriage...spared the contortions that families require. The Love men can have for one another; Love without need, struck in acquaintance and built on friendship, and fulfilled in joy...God, if only it were that simple.”

Then there’s the opening track on the OST - Eurhythmics ‘Sweet Dreams’. And the box art. I don’t think the gay overtones in that were majorly to do with Spader, though his presence and his relish in acting like Cusack’s snippy boyfriend didn’t diminish it.

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by Anonymousreply 275May 13, 2019 5:59 PM

There’s this really hot and cocky guy I work with who I would never have guess as gay. I was totally surprised when I found out. I was like wha...?

by Anonymousreply 276May 13, 2019 6:13 PM

Dave Foley Michael J Fox Benedict Cumberbuns Ricky Gervais

by Anonymousreply 280May 13, 2019 8:53 PM

What r63 said. Can't believe there aren't any Randall stories out there...

by Anonymousreply 282May 13, 2019 9:30 PM

Donald Trump. No, not kidding – the way that orange queen claps back at lighting speed is something only a pier queen could do!

by Anonymousreply 283May 13, 2019 9:47 PM

Sean MacFarlane - almost every episode of his animated shows have at least one gay joke and it's mostly unflattering, stereotypical & negative. But he seems obsessed with gay men and sang with Streisand.

by Anonymousreply 285May 13, 2019 10:12 PM

I just don't see that's it's possible that both Lady Tebow and Miss Seacrest are straight.

by Anonymousreply 289May 14, 2019 2:04 AM

Clark Gregg. Everything about him screams "gay" to me, but he's apparently straight.

Matt Weiner.

by Anonymousreply 290May 14, 2019 3:29 AM

R272 we don’t want John Cusack. He’s a creepy woman-abusing drunk egomaniac who pervs on teenage girls, and even without the general moviegoer knowing that still drags down his sister’s credibility. He ruined Neve Campbell’s prime, fuck him.

If he is closeted bi or flexible or whatever he can just stay that way and suffer, like Christian Slater and others of his gross ilk.

by Anonymousreply 292May 14, 2019 2:26 PM

R280, don't be confused by Canadians and Brits.

WHET that old website: Gay or European?

by Anonymousreply 293May 14, 2019 5:20 PM

[quote]WHET that old website: Gay or European?

Website? It's a SONG!

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by Anonymousreply 294May 14, 2019 8:26 PM

R274 I refuse to believe Charlie siem isn’t gay and not getting rough trade cock up his rich, posh boy, ass. Utterly refuse.

by Anonymousreply 297May 14, 2019 11:04 PM

[quote] Jason Bateman. I refuse to believe that he’s a heterosexual.

Fixed.

by Anonymousreply 298May 14, 2019 11:05 PM

Alex Band has been MeToo’d at least twice and married thrice plus has an insatiable thirst for women..but just seems so *gay*.

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by Anonymousreply 299May 14, 2019 11:13 PM

That reminds me of Cristiano Ronaldo who has been accused of raping a woman, but everything about him screams gay. He even had kids via surrogacy - what good-looking rich straight guy does this?

by Anonymousreply 300May 14, 2019 11:16 PM

Tony Orlando, but not Dawn

by Anonymousreply 302May 15, 2019 5:13 PM

Who’s Rinaldo’s husband?

by Anonymousreply 303May 15, 2019 5:24 PM

The world finally accepted that Oprah and Gayle are straight. They do seem to like the D in my honest opinion. Having said that Gayle’s son is hella hot? I do wonder about him? Also I sometimes wonder, we know Oprah is straight, she’s unequivocally confirmed this, but is it possible that Gayle isn’t?

by Anonymousreply 304May 15, 2019 5:37 PM

R86 ia.

And I could have sworn he was tacitly acknowledged somewhere as closeted gay or bi as a teen (around the time he was working on ANGEL), but then later retconned himself straight? Did that happen as I recall? Or was it a MeToo? It's a strong memory I have no source for now.

Feels a bit like the Mande la Effect with him, but perhaps that's just because Connor looked like a tiny lesbian.

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by Anonymousreply 306May 15, 2019 10:54 PM

Matt Iseman...at least I think he's straight....

And Kevin Jonas hit on me many years ago at an event I was working when the brothers were just making it big...

by Anonymousreply 307May 15, 2019 11:42 PM

Me. I have like none except for the most obvious.

by Anonymousreply 308May 15, 2019 11:44 PM

R293 - Blair! magazine “gay or eurotrash”. Here you go:

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by Anonymousreply 309May 18, 2019 8:21 PM

*^Here’s the game set-up page

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by Anonymousreply 310May 18, 2019 8:23 PM

[quote]And Kevin Jonas hit on me many years ago at an event I was working when the brothers were just making it big...

Saying “thank you, you’re a fine waiter” is not exactly hitting on you.

by Anonymousreply 311May 18, 2019 8:25 PM

And the follow up - Lesbian or German Lady.

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by Anonymousreply 312May 18, 2019 8:31 PM

Ralph Macchio.

I believe he likes and loves women, I just can't see it. Something is dissonant there.

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by Anonymousreply 314May 19, 2019 1:17 AM

R169 it’s not just you. He pings like an arcade and so does his ginger boyfriend there.

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by Anonymousreply 315May 20, 2019 10:59 AM

Thanks to those who found me the old Blairmag.com site.

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by Anonymousreply 317May 20, 2019 2:21 PM

R307 Kevin Jonas doesn’t fuck up anyone’s gaydar - his needle is in the green for everyone who’s ever seen or heard him. He might be fucked up or confused about it but the rest of the planet is assuredly not.

That said, tell us your Kevin Jonas story.

by Anonymousreply 318May 20, 2019 8:08 PM

[quote]WHET that old website: Gay or European?

Here's an alternative.

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by Anonymousreply 321May 21, 2019 2:34 PM

So, only one of the Jonas Bs is straight? Joe Jonas?

by Anonymousreply 322May 21, 2019 6:40 PM

Michael C Hall from "6 Feet Under," I was shocked to find out he wasn't really gay.

by Anonymousreply 323May 21, 2019 6:45 PM

To my confusion and also my chagrin, Erik von Detten is apparently straight (even married, with a son).

If you'd have told 10-year old me that Brink wasn't gay I'd have fallen about cackling like a tiny rainbow banshee.

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by Anonymousreply 325May 21, 2019 11:27 PM

^^awww I miss Erik vonD.

Seems his whole schtick as a young actor was beautiful selfish himbo blond from Cali, but in reality he’s a fairly brainy brunette family man who was too shy and nice to cut it in the cutthroat business.

by Anonymousreply 326May 22, 2019 9:18 AM

The now-retired wrestler Jon Good aka Moxley aka Dean Ambrose.

It's been suggested in the past by groupies, entertainment press writers and even other wrestlers that he's essentially a messy self-hating bi who will enthusiastically let guys get at him when he's almost passed-out drunk or high af (oral and mutual masturbation only as far as I read, though). His numerous female groupies have oftentimes said he's like a zombie in bed with them, unresponsive and lying there apathetic...makes ya wonder.

Watching him in WWE roll around so happily with dudes I thought he was totally gay. But he's married to some blond announcer lady now so :/ idk

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by Anonymousreply 327May 22, 2019 11:37 PM

Hank Azaria. Being married to Helen Hunt should be absolute proof that you are gay. It's complicated.

by Anonymousreply 328May 23, 2019 12:30 AM

I really liked Hank Azaria in "Ray Donovan." So funny and sexy!

by Anonymousreply 329May 23, 2019 4:26 AM

R261 Margaret Cho is openly bisexual. She also dated gay porn star Ricky Sinz.

by Anonymousreply 331September 14, 2019 10:16 AM

Craig Ferguson and Robbie Williams. I think they both have played a bit with men, but short of real sex.

Many people mentioned Jason Bateman, but his mannerisms don't seem gay to me. He might just have inherited that sarcastic, English sense of humor from his mother. I actually think Jon Hamm can be feyer than him, though I doubt Jon is gay.

I was also a bit surprised to find out Robert Fairchild is straight.

by Anonymousreply 332September 14, 2019 10:38 AM

The nurse at my doctor's office, was shocked to hear he is married and has 2 little kids

by Anonymousreply 333September 14, 2019 10:45 AM

Jason Bateman seemed more preppy than gay to me

by Anonymousreply 334September 14, 2019 10:45 AM

Diane Keaton, Tyne Daly, Helen Reddy, Kate Jackson

David Lee Roth, Patrick Stewart Richard Dreyfuss, James Spader Tom Selleck, Ron Rifkin

by Anonymousreply 336November 28, 2019 3:31 AM

I agree with everything R332 said.

Laurie Davidson and Daniel Tosh I thought had come out.

Jamie Lee Curtis, Tyne Daly. Lena Dunham just looks like she smells and doesn't take care of herself.

Tim Tebow too beautiful, too buff, too single, too wholesome.

Don Knotts, Mike Piazza, Derek Jeter

Barenaked Ladies

by Anonymousreply 339November 28, 2019 3:54 AM

Michael Beschloss:

Spouse: Afsaneh Mashayekhi Beschloss

Education: Harvard Business School, Harvard University, Williams College, Eaglebrook School

Children: Alexander Beschloss, Cyrus Beschloss

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by Anonymousreply 340November 28, 2019 3:55 AM

Ray Parker Jr. Vince Gill Laurie Metcalf Clark Gregg

by Anonymousreply 341November 29, 2019 2:13 AM

[quote] His numerous female groupies have oftentimes said he's like a zombie in bed with them, unresponsive and lying there apathetic...makes ya wonder.

R327 I thought this was just DiCaprio’s deal.

by Anonymousreply 342January 10, 2020 12:17 AM

[quote] Jason Bateman seemed more preppy than gay to me

Ricky Schroder was the one who was hugging all those other dudes in those made-for-TV movies years after that NBC show they did together. You watch enough of them, eventually you notice there's usually a scene of that, of him taking his clothes off, and of him crying or losing it.

by Anonymousreply 343January 10, 2020 12:48 AM

Can we stop talking bout Jason Bateman now? So tiresome.

by Anonymousreply 344January 10, 2020 3:24 AM

Bo Burnham - like, are you kidding me?

by Anonymousreply 345February 15, 2020 7:02 AM

Jonathan Antin who had a reality show on Bravo for a while. The first time he started talking about hot blond girls in his salon I thought "Wait, what ...?"

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by Anonymousreply 348February 15, 2020 5:39 PM

His brother is actor Steve Antin who is openly gay.

by Anonymousreply 349February 15, 2020 5:41 PM

TMZ s Dax. I'm not sure if he's even still working there but I used to watch the show and was 100 percent sure he was gay .

by Anonymousreply 350February 15, 2020 6:41 PM

TMZ s Dax. I'm not sure if he's even still working there but I used to watch the show and was 100 percent sure he was gay .

by Anonymousreply 351February 15, 2020 6:41 PM

Chris Morocco from Bon Appetit. Gay face, gay voice, etc. I was stunned to hear he was straight.

by Anonymousreply 352February 15, 2020 6:59 PM

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